The old adage that “people with glass houses shouldn’t throw stones,” suggests that not everyone is perfect, and that before you criticize your neighbor for doing something foolish, you should think about whether you have acted similarly.
Did you ever go to a restaurant and watch parents try to manage a group of rowdy kids? They’re making noise, throwing food, and causing a general raucous. I know more than once I’ve rolled my eyes and thought how I would easily be able to control “those kids!” But, unfortunately, I’ve been that parent trying to control my own children during a particularly rough day. It’s easy–from a distance–to see the solution, “I’d just sit those kids right down and tell them that if they didn’t behave themselves, I’d….” In many cases, you’d probably be right. The farther we are from the problem/situation, the easier it becomes to find a solution.
A recent article by Psychologist Yaacov Trope posits that the further we move in distance from the issue we are trying to solve, the better our thinking/creativity and decision-making become. And distance is not just physical. It can be imagining yourself either at a future point or historical point in time, looking from a different dimension (up/down, left/right), the distance between two people in terms of social connections (my best friend versus an acquaintance), or even hypothetical, such as what might have happened.
The article suggests that the farther we move from the issue, the more general and abstract our perspective becomes and we are able to consider solutions from a wider angle. Conversely, the closer we are to the problem, the more concrete and practical our thinking becomes. Think about how easy it is to solve other people’s problems, and you’ll understand exactly what the article is getting at.
This is one of the principles of innovation as well. People often think that they should only challenge engineers with technical problems, and only marketing people with sales problems. Using these principles in the article, and based on many years of experience, I can tell you, that you should definitely open up your problems to a wider audience. You’ll be drawing on different experience/knowledge bases, but you’ll also be creating distance–they key to problem solving.